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drwayman
Dec 28, 20203 min read
Natural Consequences
A natural consequence is anything that happens naturally, with no adult interference. When you stand in the rain, you get wet. When you...
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drwayman
Oct 19, 20202 min read
Zip It, Clip it, or Go Brain Dead
"Zip it, clip it, or go brain dead" is something that I frequently tell myself when counseling teenagers. Let me explain: 1 - Zip it. ...
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drwayman
Sep 28, 20202 min read
Reducing Fights in Families - T3 Formula
The number one thing that teenagers say that they don't like about their parents? WHEN PARENTS YELL!!! There is a simple principle that...
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drwayman
Sep 7, 20201 min read
Spitting in the Soup
Me: "So you're saying, bad people broke into our house and colored on the walls with your crayons, but didn't steal anything?" Kid"....
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drwayman
Aug 21, 20201 min read
Friends and family are protective factors against depression
"The extensive research identified socializing as the most impactful defensive against depressive symptoms; more specifically confiding...
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drwayman
Aug 7, 20201 min read
Creating a Treatment Plan
Recently, in my supervision group we reviewed the way that an Adlerian would make a treatment plan. Here is the outline for such: 1....
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drwayman
Aug 5, 20202 min read
Adlerian reflections on children resuming school
Schools in many parts of the world are opening or will be opening soon. Three questions for students that seem pertinent: 1) What did you...
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drwayman
Jul 25, 20202 min read
Adlerian Counseling During COVID-19: A Short Demonstration
Adlerian theory is applicable to all phases of life, noting that transitions can cause developmental crises during which counseling is...
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drwayman
Jul 8, 20204 min read
The Facebook Predator
The young lady was brought by her father because things had changed in her life. Â He felt as if his daughter was no longer reachable....
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drwayman
Jul 5, 20201 min read
Adler humor
Adler answers the age-old question, "Why did the chicken cross the road?"
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drwayman
Jun 30, 20201 min read
Implications of Adlerian Theory For Understanding of Civil Rights Problems and Action
An excerpt from this article, "On the one hand, like all other human beings they require a sense of personal dignity; on the other hand,...
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drwayman
Jun 16, 20202 min read
The Fifth Force in Counseling?
I was thinking about the 4 forces in counseling (there are various lists): Psychodynamic Behaviorism Humanism Multiculturalism I am...
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drwayman
May 25, 20204 min read
An Anxious Missionary
There are many cultural and spiritual aspects to this case study which could make for a long post. This post will not delve into those...
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drwayman
May 18, 20203 min read
The Bedtime Formula
The Bedtime Formula is an Adlerian technique that I have used in many situations with children who have trouble getting to bed, often...
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drwayman
May 11, 20203 min read
I Want to Change
PRESENTING ISSUE 41-year-old white male presents in the office on referral from his pastor. Patients relays that he has been "living a...
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drwayman
May 4, 20203 min read
Can't Complete High School
18-year-old white male is interviewed at the school at the request of the principal. Patient states that he has "temper problems. I get...
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drwayman
Apr 27, 20203 min read
Play Therapy: Six Recommendations
In counseling children, it's important to have a number of things in your office as children don't know that they are supposed to just...
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drwayman
Apr 20, 20203 min read
Hitting and Biting
PRESENTING ISSUE Four-year-old black male presents in the office with his mother. Mother noticed a "big change" in the patient towards...
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drwayman
Apr 13, 20205 min read
A Surprising Diagnosis
PRESENTING ISSUE A 31-year-old white female presents in the office in an anxious state. Her physician referred her for a mental health...
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drwayman
Apr 4, 20203 min read
Pornography addiction or something else?
PRESENTING ISSUE There was a man who was a Sunday School teacher and on his church board who struggled with pornography. Â He would drive...
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